I just found out thursday morning my Dad has aggressive bladder cancer and I don't know how or what to do..I live in ky. with two kids and he lives in ohio..We have never had a whole lot of time together and now it is killing me because I never expected this to happen of course we never do expect this kind of stuff to happen.. I know that there is nobody out here that can make the pain go away or make it better I was just wondering if someone could give me ideals on how to deal with it better!!!