my mum only found out a few months back and she's been in hospital since, she's had it for a year apparently, she has always had a weak bladder, but she goes to have a urine test every quarter yearly, my dc didn't find it early does that mean that i could sue nhs, the hospital have said my mum may have to be put in hospice, she could come home, but i am living alone there, i can't with caring for her myself, i want too, but she is 57, she's had cancer three times, once of the bladder, one of the stomach and one of the pancreas, my dad and my bro's are up country, we had a fight over my ex, my parents didn't like her, so i had to break up with her, to the effect that the arguements between me and my ex actually broke my folks apart, my younger bro doesn't speak to me, frankly he's an aggressive bastard and i don't care about him, my older bro might come home if i can find out where he is. my mum may not survive, cos i've been told she isn't out of the woods yet
well, if willingness and patience is all my mum needs, then she can get over this again, she needs heavy after care though or atleast she should, but if the worst does happen and with cancer

I have suffered from cancer too, the recovery time depends on how her body reacts to medicine, and her willingness to move on in life. having patience is the most important thing for cancer sufferers and family around.