diagnosed with bone cancer? I've been diagnosed with bone cancer early last year.
Since then, when people came to visit me (I don't even think its necessary coz I'm perfectly fine),
they gave motivation, say that everything happen for reason (sounds like blaming me),
and hope I can live with the fact that I will die because of cancer.

They might think that their being supportive and caring, but from my perspective, the're being mean.
My mother keeps doing the same.

How can I tell this people without hurting their feeling (eventhough they hurt mine), to stop saying 'prayers' and motivation speech to me. Thanks!