Pancreatic cancer is one of the fastest and most vicious cancers that there are. It affects insulin and pancreatic enzymes that digest food, so it can throw the digestive system out of whack. When you can't eat, you have a hard time getting enough nutrition to fight the cancer.
It could be that he is either not telling your sister exactly everything to keep her hopes up, or has told her and she doesn't want you to worry.
When it gets to the point where she needs help: You can help her, but you can also call in hospice to help you care for her.Hospice can bring in hospital beds, medicine and equipment and caregivers,clergy, social workers and nurses to take care of her at home. A doctor will be on call also.
I am not sure why she is "excited" by the news of masses on her liver unless she wants to leave this world soon? It means the pancreatic cancer has spread. I have never known of pancreatic cancer to vanish. If she already has cancer, a biopsy would be futile. Even if benign, there would still be the pancreatic cancer, but probably it is not benign on her liver.
See if you can find a cancer support group for you and her to go to together. Sometimes just talking to others going through the same thing can help. Call the American Cancer Society near you and ask them about such a group.
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