Pancreatic cancer is bad. Survival rates are low. That doesn't mean that survival is impossible though. You have to move forward with hope. Find out what the total prognosis is before you completely jump to any conclusions. Find out what treatment options there are. Mostly, support your dad and honor the way he wants to fight this thing.
I haven't had any family members with pancreatic cancer. I did lose my grandfather to cancer 3 years ago. It was discovered in his liver...they found it in his lungs...in his abdominal cavity..and moving into this stomach. I had a really hard time with it. He went for treatments...chemo...etc.. At some point he decided that the treatments were making him too sick and weren't worth it. I initially tried to get him to change his mind, but then I decided I wasn't going through what he was going through and I just needed to stand by him and offer to support him.
Good luck. There are a lot of organizations out there that can help you and your family.
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